Thursday, November 30, 2006

A Dilemma

As a Christian student at the University of Kentucky, it is my formeost desire to see the campus come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. All the time I hear people say that there are thousands of people on UK's campus and few of them are Christians. Heck, I think I've even said it since I've heard it so much. But after this semester, I am confused.

All my friends graduated in the Spring 06 semester, and I decided to stick around another year to get a Master's degree. Sticking around has placed some very interesting people in my life, people I did not know prior to this year. Now meeting these people from day one left me thinking my new friends were lost. They cussed, they drank to get drunk, they partied, etc. Yet, after getting to know them better, they claim to be Christians. They talk about going to church. They talk about reading the Bible. And, they claim Christ is their Lord. However, no fruit is produced in their lives. And the more I talk to them, the more adamant I find them to claim Christ, yet no one seems to want to change to produce fruit.

Now, prior to this year, I would have just assumed these people were lost. I mean to live in complete rebellion with no fruit, only lip service, would tend to make me believe they were lost regardless of what their words are. But, the man I look up to the most has said several times that people can live in rebellion and still be saved. According to his interpretation of Hebrews 6, one can be saved and fall away and still go to Heaven. Their lives could be lived like the worldly, and because of their rebellion, God would kill them and bring them home since salvation is something we cannot lose (John 6).

So, that being said, how do I go about talking to these people. Do they need the gospel expained to them, or do they need to be held accountable? Does the Bible really say they can live like this and be saved, or does this prove them to be lost? It's difficult because I want them to know Christ, and I want them to be obedient to Him if they know Him. It's very difficult to talk to someone who may have a wrong understanding of who he/she really is in Christ.

I know for sure that out of this semester, there may be a lot more believers on this campus than I expected, believers extremely weak in their faith who need to be challenged and held accountable by the Church as they are out making decisions on their own in a sinful college world. So I challenge you who read this to talk to people and find out their situation. Maybe you could be the accountability partner and edifier they need to be drawn back to God. Invest.

3 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

And this goes for friends that seem good on the outside but are really struggling internally!

God forgive us for coming to church and knowing nothing about those who sit around us except for our friends!

2:44 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jon,

I know we don't really know each other but I thought I was add a comment. I face the same thing every day. Many of the people here in Minnesota have a different view of the way a Christian should act. The friends we have met at church, who claim Christ as Lord, still drink, cuss, and as you said show no fruit. So I struggle with what you are dealing with daily.

They know where I stand on most of the issues and why I stand where I do but I think deep down they just think I am a legalistic, ultra-conservative wacko because I choose not to drink or cuss, etc, etc, etc. So, do I try and get them to change their ways - if I do will I just come off as being self righteous, since after all they have accepted Christ as Saviour and even claim to have him as first priority in their life. Or if I choose to do nothing and not talk to them about it, will I have to answer for that one day when I meet God face to face?

I guess I really have no insight in how to correct the problem, I just wanted to let you know that I am facing the same thing and I too would like some guidance.

10:05 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I think that Romans 14 holds a good answer for us. Paul says that we aren't supposed to be hardcore about non-essentials.

So the question is, are these issues non-essential? The Scriptures tell us to stay completely away from filthy talk and in our society, what is filthy talk is for the most part pretty well defined. It also says not to become drunk (though says nothing about abstaining from alchohol completely). So I think our responsibility is to show our brothers and sisters these Scriptures in love, not out of a desire to police their lives, but to see Christ replicated in them.

Ezekiel was commanded to preach righteousness to his people but he was not responsible for their response. So I think we are to define what Scripture, not culture, even Christian culture, says is essential and then admonish our brothers in love, then leave their response up to them. If they truly are walking in Christ, the Spirit will make known to them if their actions are wrong. If they immediately become defensive, it is a good sign that they are not walking correctly.

Hope that helps clear it up a little bit.

2:40 PM  

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